The Lovers
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The Lovers
Key Meanings
Upright: partnership, romance, choice, unity, harmony, dualities, healthy boundaries, soulmates
Reversed: disharmony, disconnection, separation, conflict, poor communication, forfeit of power, loss of self, codependency
The Lovers:
Archetypes
The Star-Crossed Lovers, The Soulmates, The Fated Lovers, The Doomed Lovers
Examples: Romeo & Juliet (William Shakespeare), Westley & Buttercup (The Princess Bride), Heathcliff & Catherine (Wuthering Heights)
The Lovers:
Description
Almost every inch of The Lovers card contains color, action, and biblical references. Above, the sun gives way to archangel Raphael, who hovers above with flaming hair and arms outstretched. To the left, a snake wraps itself around the tree of knowledge, and to the right, the burning bush. The two lovers stand naked, arms outstretched, with a volcanic mountain looming behind.
The Lovers:
Upright Meaning
The Lovers represent a union largely driven by passion. There is a sense of desire about to burst, expressed by the nudity, the burning bush, the tree of knowledge, and the volcanic mountain. This may be a budding new romance or an exciting business partnership. The sun shines, and the angel blesses this union. Still, as we know, some unsavory characters are lurking in the garden, and you must be careful not to get swept away by excitement.
On a personal note, The Lovers card points to big life choices. Ensure your next steps are aligned with your values and hold the promise of longevity. Who or what is deserving of full commitment? Poor choices based on quick pleasure may lead us to spiral out of control. The Lovers reappear in The Devil card, pointing to the potential path if we give in to selfish and hedonistic tendencies.
The Lovers:
Reversed Meaning
If you are in a relationship, The Lovers reversed can reveal that one or both parties feel disconnected. It may be that you are arguing more, harboring resentment, or taking each other for granted. Vulnerability and open communication are the only ways to navigate these trying times. Perhaps you have already tried this approach and been met with scorn or apathy, in which case, there may be no mending this broken connection. This could also point to a situationship where one or both parties are not clear on their intentions, leading to confusion, hurt, and toxic patterns.
If you are single or have pulled this card for a more personal understanding of your energy, The Lovers reversed signals that you have become disconnected from your higher self. You may be making choices that do not align with your core values and are struggling to rekindle a passion for life. Take ownership of your past decisions, and ensure you choose according to your desires and not someone else’s agenda.